Congrats! Looks good.
As for your questions,
- Technically no break in is required, however it's advised by Kia to keep it under 4k rpm for the first 500 or so miles and avoid aggressive throttle inputs or too much throttle, as well as varying your speed on the highway. The transmission will smooth out as the clutches break in, but it will never be conventional auto levels of smooth at low speeds due to the nature of a dual clutch transmission's inherent design.
- Not sure - my stays on between key cycles. Maybe they removed that functionality for the facelift? Play around in the menus and read through the owner's manual and you might find something.
- Any trim protectant should be fine, but I haven't seen a case of that stuff fading, so I wouldn't worry about it too much.
- Chevron Techron is what is usually recommended