yea unfortunatly.... i mean you can do the no drilling install, but i really dont like cutting wires and soldering them back together. you could melt the hole by heating up a knife and cutting thru it like butter but it would smell and be a little messy. i didnt use the relay either, after talking to a bunch of friends, you really dont need it.
I could easily do the melting option lol, if it means a smaller hole then heck yeah haha, and by relay do you mean the $12.50 harness that DDM Tuning sells? I got 2 of those considering I got 2 kits, one for lows and one for fogs