if you actually have to ask this question, I dont think you should even be behind the wheel.. Why the hell would you ask someone else about how YOU are driving? Every one is different, so go to a big lot, whip some shitties and see what works for you...
I live in Northern MN so we get PLENTY of snow.. All "assists ( stability Traction control etc are always off ) on every car ive ever owned..
Traction control is a PITA, all it does if your in deep snow is slow your tires from spinning, and spinning gets you out of a deep situation 99% of the time